Intimacy and Sex Coaching/TherapyErectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and delayed ejaculation are common issues for many men these days.
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Erectile Dysfunction - ED
E.D. could be a sign of • Shame or fear around sexuality (that was there before the E.D.) • Fear of intimacy • Fear of being vulnerable • Fear of penetration • Shame passed down from the family around sexuality • Shame passed down from religion, the media and other outside authorities • Fear and shame of expressing your sexuality in a particular way • Fear of getting your partner pregnant • Shame and guilt around wanting to penetrate • Shame and guilt around not wanting to penetrate • Shame around wanting to be penetrated • Having been told you’re not good enough – and believing it or taking the message in to your body • Having received negative messages about your body or your penis • Far of failure • Shock or trauma to the body • Excessive masturbation • Over use of porn • Worry or concern around sexual ‘performance’ • Having had your boundaries crossed – sexually or otherwise • Feeling disempowered in your life generally • Feeling bored or ‘not aroused’ by life • Not being fully present in the moment • Being stuck in your head • Being exhausted • Being focussed on other things • Not feeling at ease in your body or with your penis • Gender issues One or more of these things might apply to you. Or you might have your own unique reasons for experiencing E.D. The very good news is that healing and transformation are absolutely possible. |